What Men Secretly Enjoy In Bed <3 Sassy Jo September 30, 2014 Mobster Thoughts Sometimes I just get the urge. Everybody does. Here’s a blurb on what I think men are looking for. Be His Best Lover It doesn’t matter how good you think you are when it comes to pleasing your lover; there’s always room for improvement. While each man is different and has his own tastes, likes and dislikes when it comes to sex, there are several things most, if not all, men can agree on. Read on and consider these partner-pleasing tips! Talk Dirty For most men, there is not limit to how dirty the dirty talk can get. I mean dirty sexy, not dirty gross, by the way. Tell him how he makes you feel and how you want to make him feel. If you are comfortable talking dirty to your mate, then there’s a good chance that they will be comfortable dirty talking to you. Be Curious and Imaginative Your sex life should never be boring. A certain routine may always work, but even that can get dull after a while. Men are curious by nature and they often have a broad sense of adventure. If they suggest trying something new, go for it (unless it makes you really uncomfortable). You won’t necessarily have to do it all the time (unless you want to). It could just be a fun, one-time- or once-in-a-while thing. Take Charge Take more initiative during sex. A lot of men like to be dominated in the bedroom. Giving up their power and control turns them on because they spend their entire day controlling things and being in charge. When a woman in confident and bold in the bedroom it makes a man feel sexy and wanted. It also helps him relax. More Oral Sex There is no such thing as enough. It could never be too frequent. Men wish women initiated this kind of sex more, especially when they are more than willing to reciprocate. Make Some Noise Sex is the wrong time for a conversation, but it’s the right time to vocalize how he makes you feel. If you like what’s he’s doing, don’t be afraid to let him (and the neighbors) know. Positive feedback and compliments are encouraged. But don’t be afraid to tell him what isn’t working for you too.